I Think He Is Finally Finished

JJ emailed me again this weekend. Trying to figure out what went wrong and what he could have done to fix it.

So I sent him an itemized list of what he did wrong:

1. you misrepresented yourself -- ceasing my favourite activities as soon as we were married.
2. you neglected me -- preferring to watch TV or play video games
3. you criticized me -- about things that don't even matter!
4. you shirked your chores -- then placed all the blame on me for them not getting done.
5. you didn't listen to me -- when I tried to talk to you, you would interrupt or dismiss me.
6. you broke your promises -- you tell me you are going to a specific task, and weeks later it is still undone.
7. you held double-standards -- displaying great anger when I make a mistake, but thinking of the same mistake as nothing when you did the same thing.
8. you make assumptions -- instead of asking me what I think or feel, you assume, then react to imagined problems. You end up resenting me for things I have not done.
9. you have an "all or nothing" attitude -- if you can't have the best, the biggest, the most, you want nothing.


His reaction?

He says he is going to stop asking me.

Finally !

That is what I've wanted all along.

Now I will have to wait and see if he follows through.