He's Doing It Again

JJ sent me some emails on Friday. His tone has changed... instead of trying to tell me what went wrong, he is being hostile and accusing.

It really disturbed me.

I phoned him before I read the whole thing. I told him to stop emailing me. I told him if he has something to say to me, he can phone me.

He ruined my whole day.

Then I saw him on Saturday.

I took IJ to Sensational Suppers ( http://sensationalsuppers.com/ ) to do some cooking. JJ picked up JMJ when we arrived, and came back for IJ when we were finished. We spoke very few words to each other. He handed me the child support cheque and asked what time to come back for IJ. That was the extent of our conversation.

When IJ and I were finished cooking, we went into the reception area. JJ was sitting there waiting for him. There was also a woman sitting there yapping away on a cell phone. I didn't realized the two of them were together... it was HER.

It was the first time I've seen HER. I was smiling to myself... she lacks all of the physical features JJ told me he is attracted to. She is short and fat. And she wears alot of greasy makeup.

There are other things JJ has told me he doesn't like about HER... she is a smoker, and she gets stupid after a drink or two.

Of course, he also told me things he does like about HER.

She is an excellent housekeeper. She cleans up after JJ. She never asks him to help with dishes or other household chores.

I guess he feels gaining a maid is worth sacrificing an attractive, healthy, intelligent woman.

I'm sure they will be very neutral together.